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Sex Toys and How To Integrate Them Into Your Sex Life?

Sep 06, 2023

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Over the past few years sex toys have exploded in popularity but... not everyone is a fan and there is some embarrassment around wanting to use them or not knowing how to use them or which toy to choose and what on earth will it do.  Don't worry!  We know it can be overwhelming.  We're going to take a journey down the Alice in Wonderland rabbit hole of sex toys and break it down for you as to why to integrate sex toys into your, which toy to choose for beginners and what on earth these toys do!!!  

One thing we'd like to mention before we embark on this journey is that sex toys are not going to replace a romantic partner nor does it mean that you are inferior or there is something wrong with you if you can't climax through penetration alone or that you can't make your partner climax.  Our bodies are complex and women in particular can do with a little help from time-to-time to reach our pleasure potential and gentlemen... well, you or your partner can use that magic wand to massage your shaft and then slowly use the head over the balls and ultimately to the area between your scrotum and the anus.  You are welcome!!!! 

Okay, let's dive in, whether you are a beginner or a seasoned adventurer, these tantalizing tools can add a new dimension to your sex life.

Why should you consider using sex toys?

Sex toys are not just for the bold and daring; they are for anyone seeking to elevate their sensual encounters whether you're in a relationship or flying solo. These now exquisite devices can bring a sense of excitement, pleasure, and intimacy to your bedroom. They offer a gateway to explore your desires, discover new erogenous zones, and ignite the flames of passion. More sex toys today are made by women hence why these gadgets are looking a lot more aesthetically pleasing than back in the 90's! 

Choosing the perfect sex toy

When it comes to selecting a sex toy, the options are as vast as the universe itself [we're diving into that Alice in Wonderland rabbit hole now.....]. From luxurious vibrators to sensual massage oils, there is something to suit every taste and preference. Consider your desires and fantasies, and let your imagination guide you towards the perfect pleasure companion.

For beginners our staff would recommend the following: 

The Chrome Bullet Vibe from Le Wand: Dynamite comes in small packages!  The Le Wand Chrome Bullet Vibrator offers direct, pinpointed stimulation to the hot spot of desire and is small enough to not take up too much room when you travel!   

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The Tor 3 by LELO - C-Ring: Tor 3 is the perfect complement for couples seeking to heighten their Pleasure & Intimacy. This vibrating penis ring also tantalizes the clitoris for a sensation of unparalleled pleasure, while delivering elongated erections for an indelible encounter.
Tor 3 - Male Penis Ring - Clitoris Stimulator and Longer and Stronger Orgasms
In the toy section, last but certainly not least is the Magic Wand by Le Wand 
Magic Wand by Le Wand - Rainbow - Discreet Shipping and Tax Free
Petite Massager by Le WandLe Wand's Petite Vibrating Magic Wand glimmers and gleams and offers pleasure for hours with its uber powerful motor. Think foreplay, postplay, inplay, partner play and solo play... the Magic Wand can be used in all sorts of situations, let your imagination go wild!!!!
Now, a sex toy recommendation list wouldn't be complete without some lube suggestions and again we could talk about lube and arousal gels for days as the selection is vast!  But - here are some tried and tested recommendations from our all-too-enthusiastic employees!  
Reminder, don't use silicone lube with your silicone toys!  Water based lubes are best used with silicone toys.  
La Nua water based sexual lubricant La Nua water based sex lubeCreated using clean, natural ingredients, this naturally-flavored water-based lubricant by La Nua is perfect for personal or partner play and is silicone sex toy safe! 
Neo Sensual Tingle Clitoris Gel - CBD NEO Sensual Tingle Clitoral Stimulating Glide is uniquely formulated to excite and tingle the clitoris. With an invigorating combination of peppermint and two powerful vasodilators, this infused product increases blood flow to stimulate intense sexual pleasure. Enjoy the heightened sensations and greater intimacy with NEO Sensual Tingle.
NEO Sensual Man Up Enhancement Cream Experience the pleasure of NEO Sensual Man-Up Enhancement Cream. Infused with natural ingredients, this cream offers improved arousal, increased sensation and a long-lasting effect for a heightened sexual experience.
If you have any questions, don't hesitate to reach out to our experienced reps who would be delighted to assist you with your pleasure purchase here
 

Integrating sex toys into your sex life

Now that you have chosen your desired toy, it's time to explore the endless possibilities it offers. Communication is key when introducing sex toys into your intimate moments. Discuss your desires and boundaries with your partner, ensuring a safe and pleasurable experience for both of you.

Start by incorporating the toy into foreplay, allowing it to tease and tantalize your senses. Experiment with different settings and intensities, surrendering to the waves of pleasure that wash over you. Let the toy become an extension of your desires, guiding you towards new heights of ecstasy.

Creating an intimate sanctuary

Transform your bedroom into a sanctuary of pleasure and intimacy. Set the mood with soft lighting, scented candles, and sensual music. Surround yourself with luxurious fabrics and textures that awaken your senses. Embrace the art of seduction and indulge in the pleasures that await.

Embracing a new chapter of pleasure

Integrating sex toys into your sex life is an invitation to explore unchartered territories of pleasure, new horizons of pleasure..... It is an opportunity to deepen your connection with yourself and your partner. Embrace the journey with an open mind and a willingness to surrender to the pleasures that await.

Remember, your sensual journey is unique to you. Allow yourself the freedom to explore, experiment, and discover what brings you the most pleasure. With the right toy and an open heart, you can unlock a world of ecstasy and intimacy that will leave you craving for more.

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