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Anal Tips & Prostate Play: A Beginner’s Guide

Aug 27, 2023

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Discover the ultimate guide for bootie newbies: Where to begin, should you play solo or with a partner and where should you / can you buy butt plugs and prostate massagers?  We've got you covered!  

What is Anal Play?

Anal play refers to any sexual activity that involves stimulation of the anus. It can be an exciting and pleasurable experience for both men and women. While some may feel hesitant or unsure about exploring this area, with the right knowledge and preparation, anal play can be an exciting addition to your sexual repertoire.

A prostate massage is when a finger is put into the rectum to stimulate the prostate gland to help release fluid. It's usually done during sex to enhance pleasure.

Preparing for Anal Play

Before diving into anal play, it's important to take certain precautions to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience. Here are some tips to help you prepare:

1. Communication is Key

Discuss your desires and boundaries with your partner before engaging in anal play. Open and honest communication is crucial to ensure both partners are comfortable and consenting.

2. Start Slowly

Anal play requires patience and gradual exploration. Begin with gentle external stimulation around the anus using fingers or a well-lubricated sex toy. Take your time to relax and get comfortable with the sensations.

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3. Use Lubrication

This is a big one!  Using a high-quality lubricant is essential for anal play. The anus does not naturally lubricate like the vagina, so adding a generous amount of lube will reduce friction and enhance pleasure. Opt for a water-based or silicone-based lubricant for a smooth and enjoyable experience.  Remember, don't use silicone lube with your silicone sex toys!  Shop our range of intimate sex lubes and arousal gels here.

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4. Experiment with Different Positions

Find a position that allows you to relax and feel comfortable during anal play. Some popular positions include lying on your side with one leg raised, doggy style, or sitting on a well-cushioned surface. Explore and discover what works best for you.

5. Gradually Introduce Insertion

Once you feel ready, you can gradually introduce anal penetration. Start with a small, well-lubricated finger or a beginner-sized anal toy. Remember to go slow and listen to your body's cues. If at any point you experience discomfort or pain, stop and reassess.

6. Practice Good Hygiene

Another VERY important point. Before engaging in anal play, it's important to ensure proper hygiene. Take a shower or clean the anal area with warm water and mild soap. Avoid using harsh soaps or douching, as they can disrupt the natural balance of the anus.

7. Relax and Enjoy

Most importantly, relax and enjoy the experience. Take deep breaths, focus on the pleasurable sensations, and let go of any tension or anxiety. Remember, anal play can be a journey of self-discovery and pleasure. Breathe and enjoy the experience.

Exploring anal play can be a thrilling adventure for beginners. By following these tips and guidelines, you can embark on a safe and pleasurable journey of self-discovery. Remember, communication, preparation, and relaxation are key to enjoying the pleasures of anal play. So go ahead, embrace your desires, and indulge in the world of anal pleasure.

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